To get domestic violence support services right now go to:
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (1-800-799-7233)
Text: START to 88788
Online Chat: TheHotline.org
Availability: 24/7 across the U.S. and U.S. territories
Services: Confidential support, resources, and information from trained advocates
Do you need ultra private transition help with no public records of support?
Are you ready to cross over?
Are you ready to leave?
Are you tired of the abuse and manipulation?
We are here to help!
What we know about domestic abuse:
When abusers have money and lawyers they have enough money to post bail even if they are caught up in a domestic dispute claim with their claimant (the person accusing them of violent abusive acts).
Even if you file charges a first time domestic assault in most jurisdictions in the country will land the perpetrator 90 days in jail max.
What do you think will happen when your abuser “gets out”?
Chances are their ego will be damaged and they will seek retribution, we hope not, but what do you think?
The police with all of their best intentions can only respond to a live indecent and they do not have the budget to sit around your house maybe waiting for an event to occur.
You are alone more than likely with family out of state and isolated from friends as the abuser feeds off of your fear and insecurity or financial hardship through various methods of control and emotional trauma.
Potential options you have:
1. You could run alone with no help (not advised):
Prepare a plan while the abuser is at work or otherwise distracted. Primary issue for exposure is SSN (social security number) tracking through cheap and even free methods online that will pull you recent wage or location data with 30 days reporting of public data available as long as the abuser has your personal information they can use it for tracking.
Relationship hack: NEVER PROVIDE YOU SSN TO ANY POTENTIAL PARTNER. KEEP YOUR SSN CARD AND NUMBER IN YOUR HEAD OR AT A BANK OR BURIED IN THE GROUND IN A LITTLE WATERPROOF / FIREPROOF BAG ($10 on amazon: ROLOWAY). If you cant have this mailed to you then double ziplock and wrap in tinfoil so bugs cant get at the documents etc.
2. What we call the 3rdShift option:
Get a burner phone. We recommend Mint Mobile as the carrier from Target. Get the 15GB/mo plan for $20 a month HERE. Possible phone you could add the mint mobile plan too: HERE “ask for help” in store to be sure the mint mobile plan will work with the phone you buy.
After you set up the phone create a new email on the same phone (Gmail). Connect the burner to any other network than your home network to start the new phones default apps update protocol. Once the phone is updated delete the public wifi password to that wifi hot spot that you connected to to do the updates from the Starbucks or friends or hotel or whatever.
Make sure you do not use the phone to watch movies or do tasks that consume a lot of data as you are starting out in your new life since now all your data and communications with transfer into this new device as you transition “cross over” so to speak.
Now that you have your communications taken care of that can also go in your waterproof (ziplock bag) and fire proof bag (ROLOWAY) that you stash outside in the ground or a place “they” will never look like (examples here) you are ready to set up a new consumer credit privacy file that has been forensically audited from ever being another living or deceased persons.
This number is a Credit Privacy Number. Please be aware most services that provide “CPN’s” or a “CPN” are scams that do not audit the numbers and do not register the CPN with the IRS to have legal standing in commerce so that your new employer can 1099 your EIN so you can work in the private away from your SSN tracking from your abuser.
However https://creditprivacynumber.com does provide the proper structure to your new number to be sure you are not stepping on anyone’s toes digitally so you can transition cleanly away from your circumstances.
If you are suffering from domestic abuse and you want to take part in our #3RDSHIFT (Definition: 3rd shift is a time during a business day that the last shift works (Third shift (night shift): 11:00 PM – 7:00 AM or midnight – 8:00 AM).
Typically 3rd Shift transitions, like escape and evasion from abuser, takes place during the “3rd Shift” also other know sayings know in this time frame is “the witching hour” or “the hour of the wolf”.
If you call us and say “3rd Shift” or select “3rd Shift” on our payment page we will know what you need and a dedicated support agent will reach out to you only via your designated communication method.
Life is to short to put up with abuse.
Please find it in your heart to be bold and a make properly informed decision to get away and start over.
Many of our staff were directly affected by the very kind of situation you may be in now.
We all suffered/suffer from combinations of the following: physical abuse, verbal abuse, gas lighting, physical control, hiding bruises and scares with clothing, child abuse and the list goes on.
ITS NOT OK! PLEASE GET HELP!
Email: support@creditprivacynumber.com
Register FREE here: https://creditprivacynumber.com/registration/ to start your new life transitions.
Or call 7 days a week (800) 597-2560
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Where and how to hide your secret stuff:
Here are effective hiding places that advocates commonly recommend:
Inside the Home:
Less Obvious Locations:
– Inside tampon/pad boxes (abusers often won’t look there)
– Taped to the underside of drawers
– Inside the pocket of out-of-season clothing hung in the back of a closet
– Inside zippered cushion covers on furniture
– Hollowed-out books (real ones, not obvious safes)
– Inside boxes of less-appealing food (like bran cereal)
– Taped behind wall-mounted pictures or inside picture frames
– Inside vacuum cleaner bags/compartments
– In the bottom of plant pots (in a sealed bag)
– Inside old shoe boxes with actual old shoes on top
– Behind loose baseboards or wall panels
– Inside children’s toy boxes (if applicable)
– Sewn into curtain hems
Bathroom Spots:
– Inside empty shampoo/conditioner bottles (cleaned and resealed)
– Behind the toilet tank access panel
– Inside toilet paper roll tubes
Outside the Home (Better Options):
– With a trusted friend/neighbor – often the safest option
– Safety deposit box at a bank
– Locker at a gym or workplace
– In their car (if they have sole access) – inside spare tire compartment, under seats
– At a trusted family member’s house
What to Hide:
Essential items for a “go bag”:
– Extra cash (small bills)
– Copies of important documents (ID, birth certificates, social security cards, passport)
– Extra car/house keys
– Prepaid phone or phone charger
– List of important phone numbers
– Medications
– Small items of sentimental value (if room)
Critical Safety Notes:
1. Never hide things in places the abuser regularly accesses – like their work bag, their car, etc.
2. Paranoid abusers may check “common” hiding spots – under mattresses, in underwear drawers, usual spots people think are clever
3. Digital hiding is risky – cloud storage can be compromised if they know passwords; deleted browser history can be recovered
4. The safest option is always outside the home – with someone the abuser doesn’t know or have access to
5. Document storage – If possible, scan and email documents to a secure email account the abuser doesn’t know about, or use a DV organization’s secure document storage service
6. Change hiding places periodically if items must stay in the home
7. Never keep everything in one place – distribute across multiple locations
Important Resources:
– National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
– They offer personalized safety planning
– Many local DV organizations will hold emergency bags for victims
